How do you win a mediation case?
Get good results at your mediation by keeping these basic tenets in mind.
- Rule 1: The decision makers must participate.
- Rule 2: The important documents must be physically present.
- Rule 3: Be right, but only to a point.
- Rule 4: Build a deal.
- Rule 5: Treat the other party with respect.
- Rule 6: Be persuasive.
What do you talk about in mediation?
What will we talk about in mediation? Parents can use mediation to talk about many issues. You can discuss your concerns about legal issues such as parenting time, legal custody, property division, and child support.
What should you wear to mediation?
Please wear dress clothes to mediation. Pants (non-denim) and a dress shirt (tie optional, but encouraged) are appropriate for men. For women, pants (non-denim) or a skirt and blouse are appropriate. Remember that first impressions can influence a mediator’s recommendations.
Is it OK to wear black to court?
The best color to wear to court is probably navy blue or dark gray. These colors suggest seriousness. At the same time, they do not come with the negative connotations that are often associated with the color black (for instance, some people associate black with evil, coldness, and darkness).
What should I ask at a divorce mediation?
Ten Questions To Ask A Divorce Mediator
- How do I decide if mediation is right for my spouse and me?
- If my spouse and I do not talk to each other, can mediation still work?
- If I have taken care of the children full-time, might he still get 50-50 time if we mediate?
- Can I have my attorney handle finances but mediate parenting time and holidays?
How do you get what you want in mediation?
Mediators help the parties get what they want by asking open-ended questions to find out what it is they want. To determine their desired outcome, the mediator can simply ask, “What exactly are you looking for in this deal?” The mediator should try to determine if the parties’ wants are common, different or opposed.